Sunday, October 18, 2015

#truth

I've been dancing around how to elegantly write about this topic.  I realized that it doesn't matter how nicely I dress up or down these words they still mean the same thing.  So:

I'M GETTING DIVORCED!!!!

There, I said it ;)

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear that, Jen.

I hope you are well. How are you coping? Divorce is a hard and painful road, how is Sung Hyun handling it? I hope it is amicable.

What happened? Was it culture clash? Was it bc you made the move to Canada? Fill us in.

I thought something was going on when you slowly went away. Glad to have you back.....

Sending you a big hug and warm wishes for a happy ending.

Your Fan From the Beginning.

:)

Why am I here??? said...

Hello FAN FROM THE BEGINNING :)

So happy to read your comment.

So many things happened. I think marital expectations was one of the reasons why our relationship didn't work. I will share my story as I process it. Although I can speak openly and honestly about it, I haven't been able to write. I lost my voice. I stopped studying. I went into a bad depression. Finally, now after lots of counselling and family love I'm more grounded. The end of that relationship shattered me to the core. I'm picking up the pieces now. So I'm not sure how long it will take for me to get back here...to this space but I'm so happy to know that I have nice readers like you who care.

Thanks again ;)

Anonymous said...

+1 to the comments from "Your Fan From the Beginning". Jen - have enjoyed your blog and the way you have always dealt with the ups and downs of life. I think we all go through the same things at one point or another.

You are an amazingly strong person and I am confident that you will come through this stronger. Although, it may not seem like it now, things will get better.

All the best,
Jennifer

Anonymous said...

Oh, my gosh. I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm glad you had counseling and the love of your family to see you through.

Take your time and share what you want, when you want.

Your readers will always be here.

Take care.
:)

Fan from the beginning.

Why am I here??? said...

Hi Jennifer,

I think you're right -- I'm certainly not alone! Thanks for your admiration on the ups and downs of life...I'm not so sure I handle them well, but I do the best at the current time with what I"m given.

You're also right about me getting better...that too will happen ;)

Jolene - EverydayFoodie said...

I hope you're doing well :-) You are indeed very strong. All the best to you Jennifer!