Sunday, July 03, 2011
Life, Love and you guessed it.....Money (PART 3)
This is a series of truth posts that documents our struggles as a couple.
Sung Hyun came to Canada with his head held high. The money thing with his BIL was more of a blow to me than it was to him. Instead of focussing on the things that were out of his control he simply moved on. It was as if he was briefly knocked down, got up, brushed himself off and carried on. I was mad that he could forgive so easily. I was the opposite. For me it was like being pushed off a sky high building head first, breaking every bone in my body and wanting everyone to know about it. Poor me!
And the wonderful thing about hindsight is that you can look back, realize your mistakes and learn from them. And the wonderful thing about writing is that when you speak truth a weight is lifted off your shoulders and the healing process can begin -- a form of therapy so to speak!
Sung Hyun came to Canada with only his balls; what a unique opportunity to carve out a new life for us in a country full of possibility. Our second chance!