Now the waiting game begins!
TIME TO CELEBRATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But first I want to thank all the people who helped me:
1) MOM - thank you for depositing the money into my account so I could afford to pay for this (I'll pay you back, I promise). And thank you for remembering all the important dates in my life because clearly I can't! Thank you for answering all my frantic calls at random times so you could listen to me bitch about how difficult this was.
2) AMANDA - thanks for giving me this advice: 'just fill out the papers one at a time, then walk away and go back to do some more'. Baby steps!
3) TANYA & JENNIFER - thank you my Canadian friends for writing up letters for Sung Hyun and I to add to our package.
4) SHANE & ANNE-MARIE - thank you for writing letters of support to show our relationship is true and continuing.
5) UNCLE HOWARD & AUNTIE HEATHER - thanks for your kind letter and words and continual support. Watch out Uncle Howard, Sung Hyun's going to give you a run for your money at the rink!
5) DOYOUNG - thank you for translating (and the Taco Bell).
6) JINNY & STUART - thank you for meeting with us at Starbucks to answer our questions. Best of luck with your application and see you in Canada.
7) MY SWEETyHEART - thank you for taking the time to learn how to make spreadsheets. Thank you for working so hard on the translating. And most importantly, thank you for not divorcing me in this process.
As silly as this sounds I've learned a little something from this process.
It's something that I never thought I could do. I spent hours researching lawyers that could do this for me. I was willing to fork out $2000+ to have someone tell me what to do. Instead with a bit of nudging from my husband I reluctantly decided to give it a go myself. Easy for Sung Hyun to say because really all the work was mine. And while I was really upset that I'd poured over 100 hours into this project while my husband got to pick a choose if he'd help, I have to say he really pulled through in the end. He probably didn't appreciate the sleeping picture I put of him on my blog while I slaved away on the papers (my dad didn't approve of that blog entry either). Sung Hyun spent hours on the computer doing translations for family documents. Something he's never had to do before. Four years ago English was not in his vocabulary. He created spreadsheets and neatly organized information in charts. Then when he took the documents to be notarized, I think he felt a little pride knowing he contributed in some way. He felt even more pride when after the lady carefully compared the translation she gladly stamped her notarization approval. She was just probably glad to receive our $180. But it put a smile on my husbands face because we were one step closer in the right direction.
Then after his medical exam this week he called me and after I said hello I was greeted with "Are you ready to go to Canada?". Because he said he's ready.
So this is the year we make the BIG move to live the rest of our lives in Canada. And I think Sung Hyun was right in asking me if I was ready to move. Because right now I'm not. I'm not sure I'll ever be ready to leave this country. To leave my Korean family behind. To leave all the amazing memories and friendships I've built the past 4 years. But it's got to come to an end eventually.
2010 IS MY YEAR. IT WILL BE FILLED WITH MANY CHANGES AND CHALLENGES BUT I'M READY. BRING IT ON !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!